It has been over a year since our Papa passed away and it still feels unreal. Our Papa was the best grandpa in the world and had played a huge role in the women we are today.

Young at heart and open to trying new things, our Papa instilled that same mentality in us. He took us to our first Beyoncé concert, we parasailed in Hawaii and jet skied in Puerto Rico together during our family vacations, he taught us how to drive, and so much more. We had Sunday breakfast dates at iHop which used to be Thursday evenings at Chili’s when we were younger. He encouraged us, from a very young age, to try new food which turned us into big foodies who enjoy trying new food as a past time.

We have so many beautiful and funny memories of the time we had together, which was not enough. He supported all of our achievements big or small, encouraged us to try new things and to do what makes us happy. His smile lit up a room, his hugs melted our fears away, and his head rubs made us fall asleep like when we were babies. Babies. His babies. He always told us that we would always be his babies no matter our ages. His unconditional love was felt through every phone call, every hug, and every “I love you.”

But, when our world stopped, the rest of the world kept moving.

If anyone could overcome the virus (or anything for that matter) it would have been him. It was going to be him. He fought to stay with us and we know that he was more concerned with how we were going to handle him not being around anymore rather than him fearing what he was going through and what was to come.

Our Papa was so strong and would do anything and everything for us. He is deeply missed beyond measure and loved more than words can describe. Our lives were full because he was in it and we are blessed that he is our Papa. We love you Papa, always and forever.

Danielle and Jessica Alejandro, Joseph Anthony Szalkiewicz’s granddaughters